People are always complaining about how people are "fake". Personally, I don't think it's always a bad thing. Of course it is bad to lead someone on, thinking that they are friends, and then shut them down. But there is nothing wrong with being kind. Do people really want others to be "real" with them and just be a jerk? That would be a complete de-moralizer(if that's a word).
There is nothing wrong with being kind all of the time, to everybody. Just because someone is being nice then doesn't call you to hang out on the weekends does not mean that they are fake or hate you, maybe they are simply just kind. You don't have to be friends with everyone who is kind, just be kind back. Distinguish your friends from nice, kind acquaintances.
You are so right!You got your in class friends and then your friends you hang with. There isn't anything wrong with that!
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